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Escapades Celebrate the Self
Swami Suddhananda

Cote d Azur, Monaco, Cannes are the names of the exotic destinations in the Southern France. The sky blue coast, the sprawling hills, the palm fringed backyards conjure up a dreamy elegance that attracts millions to be a part of that dream. They call it the playground of the rich and the famous, not so famous and the notorious. Poverty – the material poverty - seems to have no place in that exotic landscape, but the poverty, the emptiness of human hearts, constantly feeds on that dream to escape, and not to fill up, that emptiness.

One can see it in the beaches, in the seafront hotels, in the luxurious villas and in the dilapidated neighbourhoods. Human emptiness is universal as even human fulfilment, but not many are introduced to the inherent fulfilment. All are experiencing emptiness and they struggle to get out of that emptiness by escaping into various experiences. That is how the exotic destinations are organised for millions to escape, but not many talk about the aftermath, the end of the spell and the greater emptiness. Everybody struggles to return to that place or travel to some other place like that. The place itself can invoke loneliness as everybody seems to revel in the hot spots with one companion or the other. There ‘money’ is the greatest companion as it can purchase all the hotel rooms, foods, gambling dens, drives and even male or female companionship. Nobody looks for love. But everybody moves around with the lust for money, pleasure and companionship in their eyes..

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The days pass. The weeks pass. The money comes to an end and the tourist returns to the grind of office, hard work that guarantees him the monetary reward. The memories of the exotic holidays keep him going until the next holiday. Work is an escape in order to escape the emptiness and that becomes a helpless burden. If the rich can do it in style in the glamorous hot spots, the poor attempts and fails to escape as he does not have the money – the magic carpet - to fly him to dream destinations. The unfulfilled cravings create a frustration as even fulfilled cravings create boredom. Both look for some religious escapade and there are dream destinations – the biggest temples, the grandest cathedrals, the mosques, the religious hot spots that promise instant healing or restfulness. Like the sharks in tourism industry, there are sharks in the touristic religious destinations who advertise the exotic destinations and experiences.

Anything that does not promise and fulfil the craving for happiness and freedom, here and now, in one’s own Self, shall turn itself into a travel agency where the travel agent sends everybody on a wild goose chase without himself going anywhere, but enriches himself with others’ money and dependence. He has to safeguard his interest by promising many experiences that others cannot provide. That is how both the secular and religious tour guides operate and send people chasing ‘experiences’ without making the least attempt to introduce ‘the experiencer’ to his own real nature or identity. They must know it to initiate the process. As they are unaware they become the providers of the experience and that is their livelihood.

If only ‘the experiencer’ is known, then he will have enlightened choices and thereby shall make every experience divine, a meditation. This never rings true for the average person and he is busy craving indulgences of various kinds to forget his limitations, to pass his days. Some among the ignorant become the facilitators for providing the exotic experiences both in the secular and religious worlds and they become the leaders when they are indeed the most manipulative ‘dealers’.

The unfortunate part is that the man who poisons others sincerely believes that he is feeding them to keep them alive. They feed experiences of different sorts with a sincere belief that they are enriching the lives of others when, in fact, they are making them dependant on various practices and in a very subtle way on the leaders themselves.

In the name of freedom they sell slavery. In the name of happiness they sell dependence. In the name of a divine they further condemn the man to the mundane where, in fact, there is no distance, no alienation between the divine and the mundane. When they engage ‘the experiencer’ to seek ‘happiness’ in various experiences, the experiences seem to bind them all. But when somebody will learn ‘to see and be’ the happiness in every experience, he will find the freedom in the same place.

In fact, there is no distance between infinite and finite, immortal and mortal, happiness and unhappiness as even there is no distance between the universe and the dust, the ocean and the drop. Instead of helping the drop to recognise the presence of the ever present ocean in it, some are busy promising oceanic experiences to the tiny drop. The mind of a drop cannot think of an ocean without seeing itself as the inseparable part of the whole ocean. Some smart dusts are promising the dust cosmic experiences to forget itself. The dust only bites the dust at the end and the providers die with the delusion that they have tried their best to give the best to enrich the lives of the dusts as drops.

It is high time every human being started thinking and analysing his own experiences. Even to help analysing, the man must be taught not by a limited mind but by the one who has access to the Infinite. Long before we give it to the children, the elders must learn to question their thinking as the thinking alone creates the conflict and never the creation all by itself. The solution is not in wiping out the thoughts or to discuss the entire past to push a new series of thoughts but to isolate ‘the thinker’ who creates his own problem within the thoughts extending it to the objects of the thought in the outside world. That thinker has become a traveller to travel through many experiences to forget his own limitations and thereby has become the prisoner of his secular and spiritual habits and practices.

The focus must be on ‘the experiencer’, ‘the thinker’ himself so that all the past experiences, however profound or profane, deep or shallow, comforting or discomforting, enrich life as a whole and the person discovers ‘a reality’ to exercise his enlightened choice over all the thought possibilities, the memories within. In the absence of the individuality and thereby the individual need, there will be nobody present to exploit or manipulate others causing unhappiness to the helpless, weak and ignorant. Rather, such a person will always reach out to others to share with them their native fulfilment and there is no price to pay other than one’s own ignorance. Nobody needs to be afraid of material or emotional exploitation which is the hidden hallmark of an obvious or immediate experience or excitement provider both in the name of secular and exotic experiences.

The grown-ups must look at themselves before they are worried about the growing generation. The billions that are spent on developing fine beaches, gambling dens or even warfares can be directed towards the teachings of Self-awareness and the existing systems of education must accept this aspect to enrich human life – to give it a crowning finishing touch after educating him to introduce him to the world and its various experiences.

We have tremendous means and we must use it sensibly. Or else, the luxuries of the casinos, beaches and shopping cultures will be more attractive than the centres of education for the growing mind to be ever condemned to limitations, deluding itself as the ultimate escape.

The simplicity and the profundity of the Self-knowledge should not be confined to simple environs only. It can be also represented in the best of the buildings, in most beautiful surroundings to impress and attract the growing youngsters who understand the language of the imposing structures and prestigious environment. When falsehood is dished out through most luxuriously decorated structures – both secular and religious – the simple truth of Self-awareness is expected to come from ‘caves’ only. We must have ‘caves’ but, we must have visible structures also to give ‘the Truth’ a visible place to help individuals discover All-pervasiveness invisible to the eyes, but visible to the mind in themselves.

Let us do that!

Swami Suddhananda
Samvit Sagar Trust

Tiruvannamalai
More Articles Published on July 26th, 2007


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